East Lyme Police Seek Man Who Exposed Himself To 11-Year-Old Girl

The family of an 11-year-old girl who was approached by a man on her way home from school yesterday want get word out to families in Niantic in hopes of catching him.


East Lyme Police are on the lookout for a man who allegedly exposed himself to an 11-year-old girl as she walked home from her school bus stop in Niantic on Wednesday.

"We live off East Pattagansett Road and halfway up our hill a car was waiting," said the girl's father, Jason Arruda. The driver spoke Spanish and told the girl he didn't speak much English but needed directions to New London. When she looked inside the vehicle, Arruda said, she saw the driver had his pants down around his knees and was masturbating. 

"She was hysterical," Arruda said. "She ran." 

Arruda, who was home at the time, said he and his daughter drove around Niantic to see if they could spot the vehicle. Although they weren't able to locate it, he said, they were able to narrow down the type of vehicle it was. At that point, Arruda said, they went to the East Lyme Police Department to report the incident. 

Arruda's daughter described the man as about 40, Hispanic with a darker complexion, a grown out crewcut, and scruffy beard. He was reportedly driving a gray colored, early model car, along the lines of a Buick Century. 

Fortunately, Arruda's daughter was unharmed but she was still too shaken to go to school today. Arruda said he has informed the school of the incident. Arruda has been sending emails to local media and posting about the event on Facebook to help spread the word. 

"We're trying to go as public as we can, just to make everyone else aware of the situation," Arruda said. "I think it's something that should be taken very, very seriously. Hopefully, we get this guy caught as soon as possible."

Anyone with any information should contact the East Lyme Police Department at (860) 739-5900.

Shannon arruda January 18, 2013 at 02:01 AM
I believe my husband forgot to mention that this was NOT the 1st time that this car had been seen driving up and down the entrance to our condos. Also a huge thanks to everyone who has shared these links. We really appreciate it!
pam nelson January 18, 2013 at 02:32 AM
This was Jason's daughter?!!! If this guy is kinda scraggly look'n and the car was more on the WHITE side i've seen him talking to young kids downtown Niantic. I was suspicious when seeing him just stop in the middle of Main St. to talk to a young (maybe about 12) boy, then another young girl at the gas station across from ProTek. Even tried following him...look around the tavern & Giants Neck. I saw this stuff before I left Niantic the end of March...SERIOUSLY!
Marie Tyler Wiley January 18, 2013 at 03:37 AM
Oh I feel sorry for this guy when you Mamma's get ahold of him! He's going to be one sorry dude! (and rightly so)...Not sure about naming the address where you live though...there's really a lot of weirdos out there who DON'T NEED ADDRESS'!
Marie Tyler Wiley January 18, 2013 at 03:40 AM
btw...the little girl got wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to close...Children need to be instructed its okay to not respond or to even be rude and tell someone to bug off. I think kids instinctivly get a vibe when things aren't as they should be. Tell them when they get that sense...to move away FAST.
MelissaH January 18, 2013 at 03:46 AM
My sister lives in the same neighborhood and a similar car stopped and watched her 5 yr old son, when she came into view the car sped off! She reported this to the police. We all need to be aware and keep our eyes open. Report anyone or anything that looks suspicious. Lets catch this creep!
Shannon arruda January 18, 2013 at 01:59 PM
The car pulled right up along side of her, so she didn't actually get too close, he invaded her space. Also Melissa thank you for letting us know of your sisters incident, because we were not made aware of this by the police when we reported it. This is obviously a truely disturbed man who needs to be stopped one way or another!!
Tara Wood January 18, 2013 at 04:21 PM
If you are like me & now worried about your middle school student, you can register them for a FREE Child Abduction Prevention & Self Defense Course. The course will take place at the ELMS gym on Thursdays (2/28-3/21) from 3-4 pm. Call ELYS at 860-739-6788. A ELYS registration form is required by 2/15. The course is only open to 35 students so hurry if you are interested. I registered my daughter this am & there's still plenty of space. Please share with anyone you know who may be interested & a special thanks to the Arruda family for sharing their story. Knowledge is power & it really does take a village to raise children, especially in today's world!
Faith Claspell January 19, 2013 at 03:40 PM
Has this been covered by the news media YET!!?? Why are they taking so long? Will post and ask my friends ot do the same...
Alicia G January 26, 2013 at 08:03 PM
This is just so scary. We recently moved to Niantic, I have a nine year old daughter. I'm so glad nothing worse happened, and my heart hurts for your daughter seeing what she did.


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